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Online Dating For Senior Citizens – Tips For Safety and Success by David Kamau

May 2, 2013 by · Leave a Comment
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How things have changed. There was a time that when dating over 50, leave  alone senior dating, was virtually unheard of. Now it is acceptable for seniors  to date and have fun. This article will offer tips on safe online dating for  senior citizens.

Now, at 50 you may not consider yourself a senior citizen. You may even  consider yourself “young”. There is nothing wrong with that, and it is actually  a healthy attitude. This article address singles over 50 because this is the  cut-off of most dating sites for older singles.

It was Jeanne Moreau that said “Age does not protect you from love. But love,  to some extent, protects you from age.” Well said, but we could say “love and  fun, to some extent, protects you from age”. With online dating for senior  citizens you get both; love and fun.

The first thing in senior online dating is mental preparedness: make sure you  are ready to date. And be ready to have fun.

Next, sign up with a good and reputable dating site. While general dating  sites are okay, it is better to go with an age-appropriate site (unless, of  course, you’re looking for young blood, subject for another article).

Having recognized the need for senior singles to meet each other, dating  services for older singles are now available. And they are bursting with  activity.

The advantage of signing up with a senior online dating service is that you  will not have to worry about competition from younger folks. You also know for  sure that everybody on that site is single and available.

And while you are at it, it would be advisable to avoid free dating sites.  Why? One word: safety.

You see, older singles are a favorite target for crooks and scam artists. The  presumption, right or wrong, is that an older single is typically desperate and  vulnerable. Scam artists like to post fake profiles on free sites, using stolen  photographs.

Once contact has been established, they will tell everything you want to hear  and the next thing you know you are minus a good chunk of money, and sometimes  worse.

This is not to say that paid dating sites are 100 percent safe: even your  local place of worship could not make such a claim. But with a paid site, the  paper trail left by use of a credit card means that a member can be traced  unless, of course, the credit card is a stolen one.

Avoid giving out personal information too soon. If someone starts asking lots  of personal questions, such as your mailing address, place of work and the like,  consider this a red flag and cut off all communication with that person.

Also to be on the lookout for is someone who suddenly starts having all kinds  of problems that require money. This includes claims of being stuck overseas or  suddenly falling ill.

The size and quality of a dating service also matters. While there a new  dating sites that are good – even the oldest one was new at one time – it is  safer to go with an older dating site. You can be assured that if a dating  service has been around for a while, it is doing something right.

Next, to increase your chances of finding love online you should sign up with  the right senior dating service. Find reputable senior dating sites with free trials and choose the right one  for you. David Kamau offers dating service reviews at his website and blog.

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